Introduction
Hi there! My name is Maria, and I am 53 years old. I’ve been married to my husband for 32 years, and we have two beautiful daughters. I wanted to share my story with you because I believe that sometimes it helps to talk about our struggles and seek guidance from others. So, here goes nothing!
A Beautiful Relationship, but with Some Bumps Along the Way
For the first 15 years of our marriage, everything was beautiful between my husband and me. Of course, like any family, we faced some minor issues here and there, but nothing that we couldn’t handle together. Life was good, and I felt blessed.
The Difficulties Begin
In 1995, things took an unexpected turn. We lost the apartment we were living in due to a bank loan. It was a heartbreaking experience, especially with two young children. With no other option, we had to move in with my parents for a while. It was challenging, but we tried to make the best out of a difficult situation.
A Leap of Faith
Three years later, my husband got an opportunity to work in France, and I decided to follow him, leaving our daughters with my parents. It wasn’t an easy decision, but sometimes you have to take a leap of faith for the ones you love. We both worked hard for two years and managed to buy a house in France.
Distance Takes Its Toll
Living so far away from my parents was tough. I had to stay back in Romania with our daughters while my husband worked in France. During this time, we relied on phone calls and occasional visits to stay connected. But unfortunately, the distance started to take its toll on our relationship.
An Unwanted Intruder
It was during this time that another woman entered my husband’s life. She had a profound impact on him, and I could no longer recognize the man I had known for so many years. He started treating us rudely, even our own daughters, and didn’t want us to visit him. It was a devastating shock for me and our youngest daughter, who still loved her father deeply. I felt like I was living in a never-ending nightmare – I couldn’t eat, I couldn’t sleep, and I felt completely lost.
Finding Strength in the Darkness
Years passed, and slowly but surely, I found a job and started rebuilding my life. It wasn’t easy, but I had to find the strength to move forward. I managed to overcome the pain and the darkness that had consumed me. I focused on raising our daughters and building a life for myself.
A Second Chance
One day, my husband fell on hard times. He lost his job, ran out of money, and reached out to our daughters for help. They welcomed him back with open arms, and despite everything that had happened, I forgave him. But deep down, I couldn’t help but wonder if things would truly change.
History Repeats Itself
Unfortunately, old habits die hard. My husband continued to cheat on me, and each time, I found out because he couldn’t hide his infidelity. I felt betrayed and hurt all over again. It was a cycle that seemed impossible to break.
Looking for Answers
Now, my husband works in France and comes home once a month. But even though he denies having another relationship, I have found out about his involvement with a woman who is 20 years younger than him. It’s painful, and I am left wondering what to do next.
Conclusion
So, dear reader, this is my story – a journey filled with love, betrayal, forgiveness, and countless challenges. As I stand at this crossroad in my life, I seek guidance and advice. If you have any suggestions or experiences to share, please help me find the answer to the question that has been plaguing me: What should I do?
Remember, life is a maze of ups and downs, but we can always find our way with a little support and understanding. Thank you for lending me your ear and being a part of my journey.
