Dear ladies, the more signs you see, the more likely it is that your husband isn’t in love with you anymore.
1. He Stops Asking About Your Life
In the past, you both would spend at least some time talking about your days.
But those conversations have long since stopped. You tried to maintain them for a while, but your husband simply stopped engaging in these talks.
Now, he shows no interest in your day, your work, your friends, your family, or anything about your life. You still try to ask him, but he never reciprocates.
2. He Withdraws All Affection
Many couples hug at least once a day. Some cuddle up together on the couch most evenings. Some couples even kiss upon waking in the morning or before going to bed.
There are plenty of ways to show affection, but your husband has stopped doing any of these things.
If you try to show him affection, he pulls away. Simply put, it has become a loveless marriage – a clear sign that your husband isn’t in love with you anymore.
3. He Doesn’t Instigate Physical Intimacy
He no longer seems interested in having intimacy with you.
Your sex life has dried up, and when it happens, it’s through your effort. Your husband does not initiate intimacy the same way anymore.
There’s no real intimacy, no emotional connection. It’s just a case of getting the job done and going your separate ways again.
Simply put, there is no longer emotional intimacy in your marriage.
4. He Is Never Happy, No Matter What You Do
No matter how hard you try to please him and meet his needs, there is always something for him to complain about.
You don’t hear a word of thanks for all that you do. You are well and truly taken for granted.
And yet, he expects you to be grateful for even the smallest things he does, getting upset if you don’t recognize his efforts.
5. He Disrespects You in Many Little Ways
Perhaps he decides to go for work drinks without consulting you or telling you when he’ll be home.
Maybe he lies to you regularly, even about insignificant things. Or perhaps he spends your shared money behind your back.
There are many ways he can disrespect you, but they all point to the fact that he doesn’t love you.
We hear it often: respect is one of the keys to a happy marriage. When respect is lost, it’s a bad sign – that’s when things start to go downhill.
6. He Flirts with Other Women
He does this openly and doesn’t try to hide it from you.
Whether it’s intentional or not, actions speak louder than words. His message is clear: he finds other women attractive, but not you.
You may even suspect him of being unfaithful or have evidence that he has cheated.