“Drop me??!! I don’t want to spoil my dress in your dirty van. Dad, don’t come at all, alright?” Sabrina snapped at her coal miner dad when he offered to bring her to her graduation ceremony. But Pete couldn’t miss such an important event in his daughter’s life, so he arrived at the venue and sat in the sitting area for the parents. “Next, we call Miss Sabrina Parker!” the host announced. Pete ran up to the front with his phone and started filming as Sabrina received her diploma. He was so happy, but Sabrina was angry when she saw her dad. Suddenly, Sabrina heard the host say, “Mr. Parker, can we please have you on the stage.” Sabrina was taken aback and didn’t understand what was going on as she saw her dad walk over to the podium.
The relationship between parents and children ideally thrives on love, respect, and mutual understanding. Sadly, sometimes children feel ashamed of their parents because they don’t own fancy cars, aren’t wealthy, or don’t have what the children see as “respectable” jobs.
These feelings often lead to complex emotions and strained connections.
Sabrina, 18, was on the phone with a friend when her dad, Pete, who worked as a coal miner, walked in. She quickly ended the conversation because she didn’t want him to hear her talking about her upcoming graduation. She was worried her friends would mock her because of his “dirty” appearance.
Pete entered with a smile, carrying two packages. He told Sabrina he had a present for her and left the packages on the table.
Since her mom’s passing, Pete had been there for her, always respecting her privacy.
Sabrina was happy for the presents but still felt her dad wasn’t worthy of her attention because of his coal-stained hands and face. She didn’t even let him touch her things.
Curious, she opened one package and found a gorgeous dress. In the other, there was a suit, leading her to ask, “Why is there a suit in here, Dad?”
“It’s for me, honey! I have to look amazing…it’s your graduation, after all!” Pete said cheerfully.
Hearing this, Sabrina bit her lips in frustration. She threw the present aside and said, “Dad, I don’t want you to come. All my friends and their parents will be there. I don’t want them laughing at me after seeing you, alright?”
Pete was in complete shock, realizing then how lowly his daughter thought of him.
“What did you say?” he asked in confusion.
“Dad, my friends have fathers who look like celebrities. I don’t want you standing among them, looking like a mess. No matter how well you dress, anyone can tell you’re a coal miner by your face and hands. I don’t want them to laugh at me. Please, don’t come to my graduation.”
Her words felt like a sharp knife.
Sabrina then thanked him for the dress and stormed off to her room, slamming the door behind her.
Though devastated, Pete wasn’t mad. He knew Sabrina was too young to understand the weight of her words. He still decided to attend her graduation, hoping she would change her mind.
On the big day, Pete asked if he could at least drop her off, but Sabrina insisted there was no need. Pete wished her a wonderful night.
Before leaving, Sabrina turned and said, “And Dad, don’t come, alright? I trust you won’t. Bye…see ya!”
But once she was gone, Pete got dressed. There was no way he was missing such an important milestone.
At the venue, Pete settled into the parents’ section. He enthusiastically applauded as students received their awards, waiting eagerly for Sabrina’s turn.
“Next, we call Miss Sabrina Parker!” the host announced.
Pete ran to the front, filming his girl. Overjoyed, he shouted, “Congrats, darling! I’m so proud of you!”
But Sabrina’s response was far from enthusiastic. She groaned and joined her friends, eager for the ceremony to end so she could confront her dad.
Then she heard the host, “Mr. Parker, can we please have you on the stage?”
“Thanks, Mr. Lauren! Good evening, ladies and gentlemen!” Pete said when he took the mic. “Can we have the slideshow, please?!”
The audience and Sabrina were surprised as the hall dimmed and the projector came to life. Pete had created a touching video, showcasing cherished moments from Sabrina’s childhood to her graduation eve. He had arranged to surprise her with the principal and staff’s permission.
“I love my daughter. Sabrina, I’m so proud of you. I hope your mother would be equally proud if she were here. Emma, if you are here by any chance, you can see for yourself! You told me I couldn’t raise my daughter alone, but there can be no other dad on earth who is as proud as me now. Congrats, Sabrina…we did it!”
The video and his words touched Sabrina deeply. She cried tears of joy, joined him on stage, and hugged him. “Thank you so much, Dad! I’m sorry.”
On their way home, Pete decided it was time to share a truth he had kept from Sabrina. He gathered courage and told her that her mother wasn’t dead but lived in the same town.
Sabrina couldn’t believe it. She didn’t understand why her dad had lied for so long.
With tears in his eyes, Pete explained that her mother never wanted her. When she got pregnant, she wanted to put Sabrina up for adoption. Pete pleaded against it, and she confessed that he wasn’t the real father but offered for him to take Sabrina and raise her if he accepted the story that her mother was dead.
Pete couldn’t let Sabrina end up in foster care, so he accepted her as his own and divorced her mother.
“I could not see you as someone else’s child. You were my world, and you are my everything today,” Pete cried.
“You’re not my real father?” Sabrina asked again, needing confirmation.
“Darling, I may not be your birth father, but I don’t love you any less. Forget what I just told you. You are always MY DAUGHTER regardless of anything and everything.”
“I’m sorry, Dad. I feel ashamed for hurting you. I called you ‘dirty’ and ‘smelly’ without knowing your sacrifices. What would have happened to me if you didn’t step up and raise me? Please forgive me.”
That was the first and last time they talked about her mother. They decided to leave the past where it belonged. From then on, Sabrina was never again ashamed of her dad. She was proud that Pete was the man who raised her and happy to call him Dad.