My Cousin Showed Up For Christmas In Matching Hair With His Baby—And Mom Immediately Unplugged The Tree

We were halfway through coffee cake when Narek walked in holding baby Lusi like a trophy. Both of them had their hair in little elastic puffs, like a dozen tiny spiders had taken up residence on their scalps.

No one said anything at first.

Not until Grandma whispered, “He did it again,” and Mom got up without a word and unplugged the tree. Just yanked the cord clean out of the wall and said, “Enough.”

I didn’t get it. It was funny, right? Just some goofy father-daughter thing. But when I asked, Dad took me aside and said it was “a pattern,” and that last time he copied someone’s hairstyle—he didn’t stop until it got ugly. Like, legal ugly.

Apparently when Narek was younger, he’d go all in. Cut, dye, piercings, voice, even bought the same boots as a guy from his night shift. Started answering his phone using that guy’s name. When people called it out, he’d act confused and say, “We’re family now, right?”

After a while, the guy moved to Finland. Changed numbers. That was twelve years ago.

Today, when Narek stepped into the living room with that same wide grin and rubbery, over-eager energy, I could tell most people were bracing for something. Not just the hair, but the way he looked around, taking inventory. As if everyone in the room was a reference point for a costume he hadn’t tried yet.

Baby Lusi, of course, was adorable. She didn’t care. Her little fists were wrapped around his hoodie strings, and every time Narek jiggled her, she giggled so hard she squeaked. But nobody else was laughing. Uncle Armen sipped his tea like he was trying to disappear into the mug. Aunt Lala kept glancing toward the hallway, maybe checking for exits.

“Where’s his wife?” someone whispered behind me.

“She left last year. Didn’t you hear?”

I hadn’t. But it made sense.

Narek didn’t sit down like everyone else. He stood in the middle of the room, bouncing Lusi, waiting for someone to acknowledge him like he was the star of a show. When no one did, he started humming. Then singing. Some weird mashup of nursery rhymes and a folk song Grandma used to sing. Off-key, with gusto.

When Lusi started fussing, Mom stepped in and offered to hold her for a bit. Narek hesitated, then handed her over with a slight twitch in his jaw, like the offer had wounded him somehow. As soon as Lusi was out of his arms, he turned and walked into the kitchen. No one followed.

I found him there, standing in front of the fridge, not even opening it. Just staring at the magnets.

“Narek,” I said, softly.

He turned, eyes too bright. “You ever think about what it means to match someone? Like… really match? Down to the cells?”

I blinked. “You mean like twins?”

“No, not born like that. Chosen. Like—deliberate twins. Like you see someone and you know: that’s your mirror.”

I didn’t know what to say, so I just shrugged.

“She’s my mirror now,” he said. “Lusi. And I’m hers. We should be the same. She deserves someone who understands her from the inside out.”

“Narek,” I said, cautiously. “She’s a baby.”

He smiled. But it wasn’t warm.

Later, after dinner, I caught him watching my sister. Like, really watching her. Not in a creepy way—more like he was mentally sketching her. Her outfit, the bracelets, the way she tilted her head when she laughed. I felt my stomach flip.

The next morning, he came downstairs wearing her hoodie. Same color. Same print. Same bracelets.

He even curled his hair.

No one said a word during breakfast. Just clinks and chews. Lusi was in her high chair smashing banana slices, oblivious. But Narek? He was buzzing. Like electricity under skin. Feeding off the silence.

Mom finally broke it.

“I think it’s time you head home, Narek.”

He blinked, offended. “It’s the 26th.”

“You came on the 23rd.”

“Family doesn’t have time limits.”

“Family also doesn’t cosplay each other until we’re all walking on eggshells.”

He looked at me, then Dad, then Grandma. No one came to his defense.

He packed slowly, dramatically. Like a martyr in a soap opera.

But before he left, he crouched by Lusi and whispered something in her ear. Then kissed her on the forehead and said, “Don’t forget. We’re the same.”

That should’ve been it.

Except, a week later, pictures started popping up on Instagram. Photos of Narek in a baby carrier, wearing a pink beanie and tiny sneakers—matching Lusi down to the socks. Matching her pajamas. Her hairbands. Even her baby food choices.

He wasn’t with Lusi in those photos.

He was alone.

Wearing baby clothes.

Captioning each photo with things like “When your soul finally finds its echo” or “My twin flame is learning to walk”.

The family group chat exploded. People sent screenshots. Aunt Lala texted, “Is he… okay?”

Mom said, “No. But we’ve known that.”

Then came the twist.

His ex-wife, Marieta, posted a story: “Stop using our daughter for your delusions. Court order incoming.”

The baby? She hadn’t seen Narek in over a month. Christmas had been the first (and last) visit since November. The baby carrier photos? Taken alone, in parks, at playgrounds, in front of daycare centers.

It got dark.

Marieta filed for sole custody. The court granted it almost immediately. Narek showed up to the hearing in matching baby overalls, claiming he was “demonstrating empathy.”

The judge was not impressed.

After the custody ruling, Narek spiraled. Started posting videos online—rambling rants about “echo consciousness” and “soul resonance.” In one, he said, “If the world won’t let me be her mirror, I’ll reflect everyone until they understand.”

And then, true to his word, he started copying strangers.

Baristas. Bus drivers. A librarian he’d only seen once.

A guy from a gym went viral after he posted, “Anyone know this dude? He’s wearing my exact outfit and calling himself ‘Timothy.’ I’m not okay.”

The comments were merciless. Memes. Jokes. People called Narek the “Imitation Man.” But for those who knew him, it didn’t feel funny. It felt like watching a house slowly sink into a swamp.

Then something unexpected happened.

Narek vanished.

One day, he just stopped posting. No updates, no photos. Marieta said he stopped answering messages. Even Grandma hadn’t heard from him. It was like someone flipped a switch.

Two months passed. Spring came.

Then we got a letter.

Handwritten. No return address. Just a short note inside:

“Tell Lusi I’m better now. Not fixed. But better. I found someone who mirrored me back the right way. Not by copying. But by showing me who I am without trying. Tell her… tell her she doesn’t need to be anyone’s twin. She just needs to be Lusi. That’s enough.”

There was no signature. Just a photo tucked inside.

A quiet image: Narek, sitting on a porch, beside a woman with shaved hair and paint on her jeans. No matching outfits. No baby clothes. Just two people holding mugs and smiling into the morning light.

Grandma cried when she saw it. Not loud, but that soft kind of weeping that sounds like memory.

Mom read the letter twice, then plugged the Christmas tree back in—even though it was March.

I stared at that photo a long time.

For the first time, Narek didn’t look like he was performing.

He looked… still.

Lusi is two now. She doesn’t remember that Christmas. She doesn’t know about the tree, or the hair, or the courtroom.

But every now and then, when she wears her wild little puffs and looks into the mirror, she smiles like she sees something familiar.

And maybe one day, she’ll know.

Not the full version. But the part that matters.

That once, her dad didn’t know who he was.

So he tried to be everyone else.

Until someone showed him how to be himself again.

It didn’t come from mirrors.

It came from being seen.

That’s the thing about reflection—it only helps if you’re willing to stop performing and start accepting. Because at some point, you’ve got to take off the costume and ask, Who am I underneath it all?

The answer won’t always be easy. Or pretty.

But it’s yours.

And sometimes, that’s the most beautiful thing of all.

So hey—if you’re reading this, maybe take a moment and think about who you’re really trying to match. Is it someone else? Or the person you were always meant to be?

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