Hollywood actor Jamie Farr, known for his role as the cross-dressing Corporal Maxwell Q. Klinger in “MAS*H,” married Jo Ann Richards, 60 years ago under unique circumstances.
When Jamie Farr proposed to Jo Ann Richards, he did so without a ring, an unconventional yet heartwarming gesture that speaks volumes about their enduring bond.
Farr did not present a ring simply because he could not afford one at the time. Despite the absence of a traditional proposal, their love has stood the test of time and flourished over six decades.
Jamie Farr’s Early Struggles
In the nascent days of his career, Jamie Farr faced significant struggles. Aspiring to make it big in Hollywood, he grappled with financial difficulties while looking for acting jobs. The situation became so dire that Farr accepted even the smallest roles just to put food on the table.
At that challenging time, Farr’s only thought was survival. Alongside his loved one, Jo Ann Richards, Farr continued his pursuit of an acting career. He once took an audacious step that was entirely out of character just to secure a job.
Farr visited Danby Thomas’ studio and made sure he was noticed by the crew working on a new show, “The Dick Van Dyke Show.” His persistence paid off as he managed to snag a role.
Feeling optimistic, Farr introduced Richards to Van Dyke, and they discovered they had grown up in the same small town.
Farr appeared in multiple episodes of “The Dick Van Dyke Show.” Yet, despite his promising start, his stint was cut short when another actor, who had more influential connections, took his place.
A Miraculous Turn of Events
After losing his role on Van Dyke’s show, Farr found himself reaching out for any glimmer of hope. He auditioned for “The Greatest Story Ever Told,” even though the filmmakers were looking for a more serious actor and Farr was known for his comedic prowess.
Farr attempted to prove his versatility to the filmmakers, and during this uncertain wait, he had a poignant experience. Every morning, he drove Richards to her workplace and would stop by a nearby Catholic church to pray to St. Jude for the role.
He would light a candle, offer a quarter, and say his prayer to St. Jude, hoping for a positive outcome. Finally, he got a call from the movie’s casting team, albeit a disappointing one.
Disheartened by the rejection, Farr returned to the church to express his frustrations. However, upon reaching home, he received another call—the filmmakers had reconsidered, and he got the part. Not just any part; he was chosen to play the role of St. Jude.
Soon after, he and Jo Ann Richards married. Their wedding was held at an Orthodox church, graced by fellow actors portraying biblical characters, adding a surreal touch to their union. The sight left the officiating priest visibly nervous, prompting Farr to joke with him. The priest humorously remarked, “This is the first time I ever worked in front of the boss,” referring to Max Von Sydow, who played Jesus.
Rising to Stardom
Farr’s career began to soar from that point on, and he fondly reminisces about his journey and the struggles he overcame. Every achievement was a testament to his early “long dry years” filled with perseverance.
Amidst these trials, Farr and Richards’ relationship blossomed. Even though he had not proposed with a ring back then, he promised his beloved one someday.
It took 13 years, but Farr finally fulfilled that promise. One memorable evening at their favorite restaurant, Farr presented Jo Ann with a 1.5-carat emerald ring. Overwhelmed with emotion, she teared up.
