Planning a wedding is supposed to be a joyous and exciting experience, but sometimes it can also be filled with challenges. One of our readers, Maggie, is going through a difficult time because her son and daughter-in-law have decided to have a vegan wedding. Maggie reached out to us for advice, so we’ve come up with some tips to help her navigate this situation.

Seek professional counseling for families.

If tensions are running high and communication has become strained, it might be helpful to suggest family group counseling. A neutral mediator can guide you through constructive discussions and help resolve any underlying issues. It’s important to have someone who can provide guidance and support as you navigate this challenging time.

Communication and explore compromises.

It’s crucial to emphasize the importance of respecting each other’s choices and beliefs, even if they differ from your own. Encourage open and honest communication between all family members involved. Try to understand each other’s perspectives and feelings without judgment. Consider organizing a family meeting to discuss the issues and find common ground.

While your son and daughter-in-law have the right to have a vegan wedding, it’s important to find a middle ground that accommodates guests with dietary restrictions or preferences. Maybe offer a few non-vegan options alongside the vegan menu to ensure everyone feels included.

Forgiveness and support.

Encourage forgiveness and understanding among family members who may feel hurt or excluded. Remind them that relationships are more important than differences in opinion and lifestyle. Focus on healing and rebuilding relationships within the family. Plan activities or gatherings that can help bring everyone together in a positive and inclusive environment.

Offer your support to your son and daughter-in-law as they navigate the aftermath of the wedding. Let them know that you’re there for them, regardless of any disagreements that may have arisen. Remember, challenges like these can ultimately strengthen family bonds if approached with empathy, understanding, and a willingness to find common ground.

It’s important to approach this situation with an open mind and a willingness to find solutions. By working through the challenges together, you can ensure that your son’s wedding is a memorable and inclusive celebration for everyone involved.